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Mohawk52
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 2:43 pm
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Tis one of the side effects of dedicating one's life to something other than socialising with another human being. I got into anime late in life so already have a wife and teenagers also into anime, but I keep telling them "it's entertainment, not a religous vocation". It must have worked cause they both have active social lives,,,,,,,
So far. However I think Nina should start looking for her own digs.
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darkhappy1
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:56 pm
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Hmm... Seeing Nina and Kevin try to get dates would be funny... Oh! Maybe it can be a contest to see who can get a date first, like a lot of those other shows that I don't know the name of!
We haven't seen Paola and her life very much, though... except for when she's doing something convention related. I'm still afraid of that guy that asked her to draw... the picture.
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SailorButterfly
Joined: 29 Aug 2005
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Location: Pike Road, AL
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:48 pm
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Earth_Wyrm wrote: | I am:
a) An anime/manga fan
b) A gamer
c) A programmer |
Me too, except I'm a chick!
(and taken...)
JesuOtaku wrote: | Nerdy girls are in the EXACT same position of feeling like lonely unattractive losers (even if it isn't true,) but they have the added problem of not being able to do much about it. They can't really ask out guys they like unless they want to appear forward or desperate, so what do we have to do? Subversive tactics like dressing in a manner to attract the eye or putting ourselves in positions where our target MUST notice us, please notice us!, etc. These are slippery slopes that make us feel like we're not good enough on our own for anybody to care, and may lead to us pretending to be someone we're not...someone less nerdy and different, actually. We don't have the gift of "taking a chance," we have to "make ourselves appealing enough" for someone to take a chance on us! So be brave for our sakes, boys, and we'll adore you for it, nerdy part and all!
(You could say the notion that girls can't ask out guys to be old-fashioned, but even if it is, it's still a BIG social stigma that affects how we are viewed should we dare to go against it. Cries of equality don't matter at all, not yet. Guys should ask girls out for now.) |
I was always attracted to shy guys, so I had no choice but to ask them out myself. As a matter of fact, I'm the one who originally pursued my husband. ^-^
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Jih2
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:49 pm
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Yet another great strip, these are always fun to read no matter what content they may have in them or what small part of me they shatter (yeah right).
I really love these strips!
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ANN_Bamboo
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:52 pm
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Teriyaki Terrier wrote: |
I've also noticed women's moods change at any moment, just like at my job. One minute they'll have a smile on their face and the next is pissed off expression. |
Yes, us women are so flighty and moody. And prone to such vapors, too. Must be that pesky monthly thing!
Quote: | Although I have talked to some woman anime fans before, the older one becomes, the harder it is to find topic to talk about. Not to mention to look her in the face and not anywhere else ( I always try to be polite, but being a guy, this is bound to happen.) |
Have you tried talking about something... other than anime? Maybe if you were actually listening to her speak, it'd be easier to focus on her face. Then you wouldn't just have to force yourself to be polite.
Maybe that's why they look pissed, dawg.
classicalzawa wrote: | but why could he never say anything about my ... hand-eye coordination/juggling skill? I know I complained at him for this but he still didn't seem to learn... |
Yeah, what's up with that? I was always so furious at my boyfriend because he didn't compliment me on my ability to speedily change the windshield wipers on my car! Or the fact that I could eat a whole Hot Pocket in 30 seconds!
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LunarianWarrior
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 5:55 pm
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Awww poor Kevin, hopefully he'll find someone even though Nina is the closest match for him. Maybe it was that hentai panel that he told her about that makes her avoid him? XP
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LordRedhand
Joined: 04 Feb 2009
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:10 pm
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Yeah this comic strikes close to home let see:
1. Anime Fan
2. Gamer (meaning RPGs and miniatures)
3. Comic Book fan
but I think I have some counters....
1. I work sales/customer service so by working I interact with people.....
But outside social life? Yeah not so much.... maybe because I haven't really entered into the dating scene ( can't find if you don't look right?)
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Halogen
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:44 pm
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This made me laugh
It's so true!
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farichada
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:55 pm
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Teriyaki Terrier wrote: |
I've also noticed women's moods change at any moment, just like at my job. One minute they'll have a smile on their face and the next is pissed off expression. |
Listen buddy, not at all girls are like the tsunderes that you see in anime. I'm not saying that they don't exist, but what are you trying to get with a comment like this; praise, criticism, satisfaction; don't even try to pull the I am just going "I'm just saying the truth" route. Also fyi, most girls have more brainpower than the girls from Kanon -- at least if they are over the age of 12. lol
That aside, awesome article. So to all you losers never give up, if you don't try you automatically lose. Dating girls is like a RPG if you never try you can never gain experience and your skills and abilities will always be low. After some grinding, you will be a pro in no time. Even if your skill are naturally not the best, practice can make the difference just like with any other skill or hobby. Just keep with it and it will work out. It also helps to have a guild, a group of friends, no need to feel alone when trying this.
Wow, I made a horrible typo.
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dtm42
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 7:29 pm
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farichada wrote: | So to all you losers ... if you try you automatically lose. |
Um, we already know that. That's why we don't try.
I believe in a past Chick on Anime column, Bamboo (I think it was her) mentioned how if a handsome guy asks a girl out he is seen to be cool and confident, but if a "regular" guy tries to ask a girl out he'll come across as a creep. That's purely because of looks, and not to do with behaviour. Though, the lack of confidence caused by not looking great and knowing he will be rejected can then cause a guy to have body language that makes him even less likely to come across well. As for saying that practice makes perfect, what that advice doesn't account for is that a rejection from a real person stings far more than anything a 2D or CGI girl can dish out. Each rejection can have the opposite effect, lowering morale and experience rather than increasing them. Life is not a computer game.
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belvadeer
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 7:54 pm
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Haha, the last panel has the best lines
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FaytLein
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:26 pm
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Ah, the classic geek problem. I've tons of experience with rejection, my love life has been practically non-existant since high school, and that was 10 years ago. The real meat of the guy's problem when it comes to asking girls out is one part fear of rejection, and another part lack of social circles. If you are an anime fan in particular, your safety zone happens to be smaller than say an "average person's" tastes and mentality, so going up and asking random girls out is something that carries a fairly high risk of rejection if their isn't a common ground for people to interact with. People NEED common ground in order to have a relationship and have it work, so asking out the preppy girl, when your interests run completely differently will be profoundly more difficult than finding a girl reading from the manga selection at your nearest bookstore.
Basically, stay with what you know and where you are comofortable and statistically, you will meet someone, now its merely a question between it happening now and 40 years from now.
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ANN_Bamboo
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:18 pm
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dtm42 wrote: |
I believe in a past Chick on Anime column, Bamboo (I think it was her) mentioned how if a handsome guy asks a girl out he is seen to be cool and confident, but if a "regular" guy tries to ask a girl out he'll come across as a creep. That's purely because of looks, and not to do with behaviour. |
>__< I totally didn't say that. Neither did Casey nor Sara. We had said that there was a double standard. But we didn't use the term "regular" guy as the contrast. I think I had said something about how it's unfair that two guys could approach the same girl in the same way, but that the one who was more socially acceptable (by mainstream standards) was more likely to get an excited or flattered response.
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dtm42
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:50 pm
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SakechanBD wrote: | >__< I totally didn't say that. Neither did Casey nor Sara. We had said that there was a double standard. But we didn't use the term "regular" guy as the contrast. I think I had said something about how it's unfair that two guys could approach the same girl in the same way, but that the one who was more socially acceptable (by mainstream standards) was more likely to get an excited or flattered response. |
After searching through most of the Chicks on Anime columns, I cannot even find the original mention. So I will take your word for it, while simultaneously wondering if I'm not going senile.
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Redbeard 101
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Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 1:18 am
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Teriyaki Terrier wrote: | Although I have talked to some woman anime fans before, the older one becomes, the harder it is to find topic to talk about. Not to mention to look her in the face and not anywhere else ( I always try to be polite, but being a guy, this is bound to happen.) |
Speak for yourself thank you very much. Just because YOU can't see past their chest doesn't mean others guys can't. And if you think being at a con and not staring is rough try looking most women at a Renaissance festival in the face. Thanks to their tight corsets half the time their chest is in their face.
Teriyaki Terrier wrote: | I've also noticed women's moods change at any moment, just like at my job. One minute they'll have a smile on their face and the next is pissed off expression. It's even worse or hilarious (depending if it resolves around you or the sitution) if its a customer. |
I know...how come women are just such.....women. With that attitude no wonder you might have trouble with the ladies. people in general are prone to mood swings and I am of the mind that half of America suffers from bi-polar disorder and we should all be on medicine.
Though I do feel Kevin's pain to a degree. By in large I think there's a double standard where the pressure is on us men to approach the women. But have no fear Kevin, this is why the good lord has granted us Speed Dating lol. With in the span of one hour you can date, and be shot down, by upwards of 20 women at one of these events.
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