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vashfanatic
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I love Jun! She's the only woman in NANA who's with a guy who doesn't treat her like crap (or from whom she's buying sex). Her relationship with Hachi has always struck me as really...motherly. Like a big sister who's way older than you, and thus takes care of you as much as she is your friend. You see the big sister/little sister dynamic a LOT. And for earlier in your post... anime is just rife with awesome female characters, but filled with ones you'd like to smack for being weak-willed idiots, too. My first heavy exposure to anime came through Fushigi Yuugi, so I got that misconception out of the way right off the bat. |
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DomFortress
Posts: 751 Location: Richmond BC, Canada |
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This is the first time in a long time that I regret being so frank, intrusive, and transparent.
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Agent355
Posts: 5113 Location: Crackberry in hand, thumbs at the ready... |
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Vash, Yes, you mentioned Junko first, I just didn't notice it. Kudos! She is like a big sis, and I love that about her!
how's this for a topic: Sibling relationships...they don't all have to be incestuous! Maybe it's because I'm close with my sibs, but as an American comic fan, I've always bemoaned the lack of siblings in superhero comics (the only one I can think of are the Storm siblings in Fantastic Four), and anime/manga have a very notable number of great sibling pairs. I find it very unfortunate when said pairs are shipped (Kurau and Christmas, even (squick) Ed and Al), but isn't it awesome how many different types of non-romantic bonds you can find in anime/manga that are hard to find everywhere else?! A lot of people on the NPR boards pointed out contemporary American shows that easily pass the Bechdell Rule, such as Gilmore Girls, Veronica Mars, Battlestar Galactica, anything by Joss Whedon, etc. it's interesting. |
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fuuma_monou
Posts: 1817 Location: Quezon City, Philippines |
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The etymology of yuri is fuzzy enough that the Dirty Pair is one possible source. The light novels had "We're not lesbians!" so presumably they had in-story speculation about their sexual orientation. The thing with Marimite and yuri is the old rule that you can't have yuri without "Oneesama!" Hard to think of another show where "oneesama" is used more often between two girls who aren't related. Heck, the Anne of Green Gables anime had Anne and Diana's relationship emphasized thusly: "Diana, didn't we promise each other not to get married and become old maids?" I know, they're bosom friends, not a lesbian couple, though that doesn't stop people from speculating. |
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rinmackie
Posts: 1040 Location: in a van! down by the river! |
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DomFortress wrote:
[quoteLooks pretty solid so far, but there are two fatal flaws in that system; the legal age of consent for sexual activity at 13 is too low,[/quote] I know it's been a few pages since this post but I feel compelled to correct you. While it's true the legal age of consent is 13 according to national law, the individual prefectures are allowed to make their own age of consent law. However, if they don't, then the national law applies but the age cannot be set lower than 13. Last I heard all prefectures now have their own consent laws which places the age between 16 and 18. I believe Tokyo was the last to do this just recently. So I believe it is now illegal to have sex with anyone under the age of 16 in Japan. * I would quote a source but I know I read this somewhere recently. Probably on ANN. |
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Cait
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Aside from the fact that I was, for the most part, clearly joking, I will attempt to defend my argument. While I am trying to unravel the cryptic arguments you try to express and am probably missing the mark in what you were actually trying to say, I will say that it is inaccurate to compare the male preoccupation with sports with survival instincts, such as hunting. Sports, if anything, are an extension of the male competitive spirit, the one that determines, often, reproductive success. While it is true that there is an instinctive correlation between males who are athletic (the ability to hunt effectively) and successful, let's call it "mating," the problem isn't there, but in the preoccupation with the very act of athletics, not its rewards. It is counter-productive for men to always be talking about sports, therefore, if the ultimate goal is to land a woman, because, seriously, women in general have no interest in the sports themselves, only generally in what they represent (of course, there are serious exceptions to this rule and I am not suggesting that women can't appreciate athletics themselves). What I am trying to say is that men focus on sports unproductively in conversation in the same way that women discuss men unproductively in conversation (particularly in works of fiction where the conversation focuses on the aesthetic and unrealistic expectations or ideals of men, and not their substance). In order to be fair, for the Bechdel rule to apply to men, the threads of conversation that men have with other men should reflect an actual, productive social interaction and not the distraction that things like sports afford, to resist discussing the things that could actually help them understand both genders (not just their own). Therefore, I would even amend my joke to, "3) that is not about sports or sex," because if men want to understand women, maybe they should start by talking about them (and not about their breasts or willingness to "give it up"). |
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Princess_Irene
ANN Reviewer
Posts: 2606 Location: The castle beyond the Goblin City |
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I agree - there's a lot of strong female friendships to be found in magical girl shows. Not only are the girls required to work as a team, but that team must be tightly knit in order to fully complete their mission. "Sailor Moon" is just one good example - not only does it have the primary group, but there are secondary teams that are very closely bound, like the former Dark Moon Circus girls who become Chibiusa's team in the manga. "Wedding Peach" is an even better example. Unlike in "Sailor Moon," Momoko, Yuri, and Hinagiku were close friends to begin with. They use their friendship to strengthen their teamwork while fighting the devils - Momoko even uses that friendship to transform Yuri and Hinagiku into Love Angels initially in the manga. (And did anyone else notice that Viz used the German editions for their translations???) In "Othello" (which I realize isn't quite a magical girl story, but hey, she transforms) it is the lack of female friendship that causes Yaya to become Nana, and the strong friendship between Maron and Miyako in "Kamikaze Kaito Jeanne" influences how both girls react to the situation as each tries to protect the other. |
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ArthurFrDent
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heh Cait... I would submit this is why there is no bechdel for men... we think about things fundamentally in a different way than women. Different agendas and needs and all that. We talk sports to consolidate the team. And then? And then you have a kid in the intensive care unit, and you call you best friend to tell him that your #1son is probably dying. An open phone line and silence for 30 seconds, and he says: "you need me there?"
There, that was the whole conversation, and all that was needed. Completely different than what my ex-wife needed from her friends. So, while I know you are partly joking, it's a good thing to think of... when the conversation turns to "does she put out?" the very next words can be, "you gonna marry this one?" 'I'm thinking about it.' "because if men want to understand women, maybe they should start by talking about them" - cait Likewise with women understanding men... realise that we are a bit different and not just in looks... and that doesn't make us wrong. |
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DomFortress
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Now I know that there is the competitiveness aspect in sports, and that's how men display themselves being a physically stronger specimen among others, thereby gaining attentions from women, who find athletic performances as signs of healthy genes and power status. And that's exactly why I don't like most professional sports that's being broadcast on TV these days. They're displaying so much competitiveness in sports entertainments, that they're neglecting the technical and spiritual aspects of sports and fitness. However, I consider the technical and spiritual aspects of sports and fitness are the truthfulness and purity of active lifestyle. It is by these strength and virtue can one achieve wellness through active living, and I believe wellness is something both men and women can relate.
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DomFortress
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Zac
ANN Executive Editor
Posts: 7912 Location: Anime News Network Technodrome |
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Why in the world would we do that? |
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abunai
Old Regular
Posts: 5463 Location: 露命 |
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Yah, why? But now that we have been invoked... Psycho, look at your post. Look at the size of that quote box. Just look at it. I trust you to do the right thing and let the air out of it, a bit. - abunai |
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Unit 03.5-ish
Posts: 1540 Location: This space for rent |
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...uh? OK, this is OT, but with the way the last two CoA article discussions have been derailed, sidetracked, and descended into PURE INSANITY, is this going to be a continued trend, and are people going to continue pulling out their soapboxes to share their wonderful life experiences, etc. with us all? I mean geez, it's about female best friends in anime, not "Well, it's a lot like how this time when I..."
Well, anyway...that's my two cents. |
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abunai
Old Regular
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Here's mine: you should be one of the last people to berate others for soapboxing. You're right, it's wrong -- but really, you shouldn't be the one saying it, because you're one of the worst offenders. - abunai |
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dtm42
Posts: 14084 Location: currently stalking my waifu |
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I have to say that I was a tad disappointed at the limited scope of this week's discussion. The same handful of characters and Anime were mentioned time and time again, and it felt repetitive. Don't get me wrong, I liked the depth, but the discussion was way too narrow, and (I felt) a little stale by the end. I mean, surely there are more female-only friendships in Anime than the few that were discussed.
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