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OtakuAnthony_AH



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 4:19 pm Reply with quote
Paiprince wrote:

Thanks for affirming my suspicions that liberals like to pick and choose social issues they'd defend and condemn. "Oh would you please think of the homo's feelings? Sad" then switching gears to, "What the fudge is this incest filth? It's personally offensive to my values!"


Except liberals don't do this... at all. Just because someone is left leaning doesn't mean they support everything on the left or don't have things that they personally bother them. I'm not crazy about incest myself and I'm a card carrying socialist.
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@Polycell You are right it's a niche occurrence, but just because it's niche it shouldn't be just swept under the rug.

And for your examples, the one they lack is 'consent'. Walk up to a policeman and ask if you can take his car. Then try to take it anyway and see what the response will be. So yes, harm is done. In your examples. As you deny consent of the other party.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 4:31 pm Reply with quote
Polycell wrote:
Blanchimont wrote:
So WHY do you think it's not acceptable, if no harm is done? If it's for the same reason some people might like the color red but puke to the color blue, then that's fine because that would at least be an answer as to the 'why', after all tastes can't be argued with. But if it's not, then what's the rationale, seeing as you don't come from a religious background?
"If no harm is done", "if no harm is done", "if no harm is done". I can easily use that as an excuse for anything: what's the matter with me coming into your house uninvited if no harm is done? What's wrong with me borrowing a police car without permission if no harm is done? "If no harm is done" is nothing more than a rationalization for a demagnetized moral compass. You can carve out niche cases where you can guarantee there's no power imbalance between parent and child or older and younger siblings and there's no chance of children, but it's just that: a niche case, worth little more than as a distraction from the true point at hand.


Just because someone else has a different set of morals than you do doesn't mean they're demagnetized.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 4:51 pm Reply with quote
Blanchimont wrote:
Also Akaneiro ni Somaru Saka, but only the anime adaptation and PC version of the visual novel...


octopodpie wrote:
They actually do a backpedal in the final episode with the sibling's parents hinting that they aren't actually related but they don't ever officially come out and say it. This is another one of those silly harem shows I watched all the way through for some reason.


Still wish they didn't take such a lazy route though.
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Hellsoldier



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 5:09 pm Reply with quote
AksaraKishou wrote:


You should probably watch Aki Sora + Yosuga no Sora so you can see what anime is available of doing without being outright hentai...At least on the former. (.)(.)

That said, you should probably check out Grisaia. The first season was an handful of wtf, they just tried to go the Amagami way with the 1 route per 2 or 3 episodes, following the common route, but ended up making everything feel cheap. Season's 2, which is just an 1 hour special, and 3 are, however, one of the best adaptations of an eroge that I know of. They cut out a lot of stuff from the VN ( I would know, tried to read the whole thing, the whole 3, in Japanese despite the fact that my Japanese skills are meager at best)but you'll never know that. If you want prime entertainment, then you know where to look for.

Anyone can disagree with me, but that's my opinion at least.

PS: Greetings from Porto, too. Wink

PSS: I agree with you. People in the US seemingly don't know that moral compasses in literature are looser...


Oh yeah, I had forgotten to mention that I watched Grisaia. The adaptation was completely at break-neck speed, but I loved many of the characters and all. If anything, I wish there had been more episodes, as well as a couple of other choices. Was there wish fulfillment? Absolutely, specially at the end. But I'll give it a pass, since that guy went through hell. I assume you also recommend the VN's.

I guess I'll also check those other two works out, to see the fine line between ecchi and hentai.

In literature, specially speculative fiction, we defy our own thoughts and even grow our knowledge and empathy. We imagine societies and worlds and people, that to many, are real, in a subtle way (too much Re:Creators, maybe?). Robert A. Heinlein, George Orwell, Haruki Murakami, Stieg Larson, and many others stimulate our imaginary. This not to mention anime, or movies like Blade Runner. Or shows like Babylon 5.

Cumprimentos.

Raftina wrote:

I think you mean "flak". "Getting flak" means receives a lot of criticism. "Getting slack" means being tolerated or accepted.

That being said, there are 2 rather practical reasons to reject incest in the nuclear family. The first, related to the disgust factor--is eugenics. The second is the potential for abuse of authority in a setting where abuse of authority is difficult to detect and should not be tolerated. It is why teacher-student relationship is so repulsive in many societies, the most extreme being China, where it is viewed in the same manner as parent-child relationship.


I stand humbly corrected. Note that I understand the Westermarck effect and am affected by it, to the point that I don't see my female cousin that way, and well, I only have brothers, so... With that said, the eugenic argument has holes. First, what about homosexual incest? (either german speakers or Rammstein fans will get the joke). Secondly, what if they are not intending to, or can't have kids? Thirdly, should any law have an eugenic basis? Funny that you mention the teacher thing, since France just elected a guy who married his teacher. Some would say he's living the dream. Wink I'm sorry, I had to make this joke. I was unaware about China... though it doesn't surprise me.

Parsifal24 wrote:


Ultimately yes it does ultimately boil down to a religious objection as I base my ethics upon The Christian Scriptures that does lead me to take rather traditional views on human sexuality. I was merely observing again that when ever the topic of Incest is brought up in a discussion of Anime. There are always a few such as yourself apparently who like to argue from a perspective that consent is the only thing that matters in human sexual relations.



If we were to let religion dictate everything, perfectly harmless groups, like homosexuals, bisexuals, trangender, unwed couples, etc, would be oppressed. Lets not even go there.

Woomy wrote:


Sorry society at large will never normalize you wanting to bang your siblings I guess. Rolling Eyes

Seriously though, this argument is like something you'd expect to hear from some pretentious dude on the Jerry Springer show or something.


The word pretentious doesn't tell me much on its validity, but that's fine. Smile

Blanchimont wrote:
Key wrote:
And BTW, religion has nothing to do with it. I'm non-religious and liberal-leaning on most things and I don't see it as acceptable.

So WHY do you think it's not acceptable, if no harm is done? If it's for the same reason some people might like the color red but puke to the color blue, then that's fine because that would at least be an answer as to the 'why', after all tastes can't be argued with. But if it's not, then what's the rationale, seeing as you don't come from a religious background?

In the Western world, incest between consenting adults is legal in France and Spain.


I want a real answer from people. Not excuses. Most incest is not consensual? Your point, people? Some is consensual and there's anti-rape legislation. Genetic defects? No eugenics in the law. Don't like it? Not your lives. Get away.

I am guided by John Stuart Mill's Harm principle. People's disgust should be irelevant in law and philosophy. It isn't an argument. If you have no real answer, don't pretend you do. If taboos were everything, we'd still be living in the Middle Ages.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 5:26 pm Reply with quote
Polycell wrote:
Blanchimont wrote:
So WHY do you think it's not acceptable, if no harm is done? If it's for the same reason some people might like the color red but puke to the color blue, then that's fine because that would at least be an answer as to the 'why', after all tastes can't be argued with. But if it's not, then what's the rationale, seeing as you don't come from a religious background?
"If no harm is done", "if no harm is done", "if no harm is done". I can easily use that as an excuse for anything: what's the matter with me coming into your house uninvited if no harm is done? What's wrong with me borrowing a police car without permission if no harm is done? "If no harm is done" is nothing more than a rationalization for a demagnetized moral compass. You can carve out niche cases where you can guarantee there's no power imbalance between parent and child or older and younger siblings and there's no chance of children, but it's just that: a niche case, worth little more than as a distraction from the true point at hand.


Power imbalance is an abusive relationship, thus abuse. The niche cases should not be judged the same as abuse (''Innocent untill proven guilty''). Also I was dealing with horizontal incest (siblings) between people old enough. Parental incest and sibling incest involving a less mature individual and a dominator already are filled with problems... To put it mildly.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 6:13 pm Reply with quote
Just Passing Through wrote:
The problem is that it's no longer a niche, or even a genre, it's anime mainstream. The one-sided unrequited inappropriate relationship is an anime comedy short-cut. Brothers crushing on sisters, sisters crushing on brothers, teachers and student, parents and children, it's a cheap and quick way to get a laugh.

There are so many shows that I enjoy for 99% of the runtime, and just have to roll my eyes and look past the stupid incest comedy


The sis-con/bro-con side gag has been in anime forever. There is a difference between that and a full-on incestuous relationship. There are not a huge number of anime that cross that line. And again...this is not new and it isn't going to change because you get squeamish whenever you hear someone sigh the words "Onii-chan".

This "oh I'm so offended I feel ill' attitude really doesn't gel for anyone that claims to be an anime fan for an extended period of time.

Animegomaniac wrote:
The author forced her to end the relationship. Writing's a funny thing and it's pretty easy to tell times when "the author takes control!" plotting takes over what was otherwise natural character interactions.


Yeah except for the fact that the author is the one in control in the first place. As a consumer, you can either consume the product or not. And for all this talk of jumping off a cliff and going down the hole, last I checked the series sold very well so how exactly is it a failure?

It keeps feeling like people are forgetting these are fictional characters and there are no rules they have to follow. If the audience were the ones controlling the narrative then Ned Stark would have had Cersei Lannister arrested while Robert was still alive, and the Prince of Dorn would have backed away and let The Mountain die in the arena. Alas, we do not.

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And we're right back at "incest is hot!"... and the number of replies this thread has.


We're actually right back at "you should hate what I hate and like what I like or you're a horrible person". But yeah...the number of replies to this thread...
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 6:56 pm Reply with quote
Hellsoldier wrote:
Power imbalance is an abusive relationship, thus abuse. The niche cases should not be judged the same as abuse (''Innocent untill proven guilty''). Also I was dealing with horizontal incest (siblings) between people old enough. Parental incest and sibling incest involving a less mature individual and a dominator already are filled with problems... To put it mildly.
Yes, innocent until proven guilty applies to the point of proving it exists. However, unless your head's so far up your ass you're seeing daylight, most cases of incest feature a major power imbalance; like I said earlier, the acceptable niche case people keep pushing is incredibly small, something that can be considered an affirmative defense at best.
Slashman wrote:
Yeah except for the fact that the author is the one in control in the first place.
True, but breaking characterization to make the story turn out as intended is usually considered bad writing. If you can't get to your desired ending without sending somebody off the rails, you need to reconsider the ending.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 7:23 pm Reply with quote
Paiprince wrote:

Thanks for affirming my suspicions that liberals like to pick and choose social issues they'd defend and condemn. "Oh would you please think of the homo's feelings? Sad" then switching gears to, "What the fudge is this incest filth? It's personally offensive to my values!"


To be fair, the left felt the same way about being transgendered in the 90s. Even today, plenty of gay/bisexuals openly don't accept trans people, despite the left's overall push lump them together. I'd say wait twenty to fourty years and see what the stance on things is then. Until then, I suppose focusing on countries where it is legal is the best thing one can do.

In France it's legal and it was in Code Lyoko. Fake incest, granted, but the two characters were posing as cousins who were dating each other as a cover story. Surprisingly, it wasn't censored in the American broadcast. Otherwise you can find incest even in kids anime. Some cultures are just more open to it.

-Stuart Smith
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I like the theory that sibling romances in anime, manga, light novels and visual novels aimed at an otaku niche audience are wish fulfillment.

The point is less about the taboo than about the idea that a person you, in the form of a relatable or out right self insert protagonist, can find romantic love with someone who they are comfortable with, living with, won't reject them, and already loves them unconditionally familialy. Take away the "taboo" part and it sounds like a too-good-to-be-true fantasy, especially to people who may have struggled with relationships, romantic, platonic and familial, in real life. So it proliferates in otaku media and is joked about in the more mainstream stuff.
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Polycell wrote:
True, but breaking characterization to make the story turn out as intended is usually considered bad writing. If you can't get to your desired ending without sending somebody off the rails, you need to reconsider the ending.


Most incest relationships in anime are technically shaky writing in the first place and used as a platform for a certain type of humor. As mentioned earlier, Koi Kaze is the closest thing to a real situation in anime that I have seen except possibly Yosuga no Sora which was centered around a tragic loss for both parties involved (still not exactly likely).

Although in this case I would argue that people are more angry about their preferred best girl not getting the spotlight in the ending than they are about incest. But it isn't like background doesn't exist in the material to show why Kirino feels like she does. And the truth is that Kyosuke went above and beyond in his role as big brother to both protect Kirino and make her happy. The things he does and sacrifices are several times past what the average brother would do for his sister.

Is it still somewhat shaky writing? Maybe...but it isn't completely out of left field either.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 7:28 pm Reply with quote
One word: "Oldboy" That's all.

I take that back. Read "If All Men Were Brothers, Would You Let One Marry Your Sister?" a science fiction story from 1967 written by Theodore Sturgeon and printed in Harlan Ellison's Again, Dangerous Visions. It will alter your view of things.
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Okay, now I'm really curious. What was Kirino's deal, anyway? Why was she secretly obsessed with otaku stuff, and why did she have a thing for her brother? Can someone do the spoiler thing and clue in those of us who haven't seen Oreimo?
Thanks (I'm not being facetious, I'm really, honestly curious about an anime I haven't seen that had a major influence on this aspect of otaku culture).
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 9:18 pm Reply with quote
TheAncientOne wrote:
Parsifal24 wrote:

Ultimately yes it does ultimately boil down to a religious objection as I base my ethics upon The Christian Scriptures that does lead me to take rather traditional views on human sexuality.

I am curious how you view the common cousin trope in anime, since the Bible itself appears to have no problem with marriage between cousins.


The bible has no problem with incest period. See the story of Lot. I does have a problem with recreational/romantic sex, but if the only person of the opposite sex around is you father/mother and you're childless, go for it. Rape them even, don't even bother asking.

I find incest very problematic even between non-blood-related people, but, culturally, it was very well accepted in the past.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 11, 2017 9:29 pm Reply with quote
If you're like me and prefer more cynical takes on this subject matter over fetishized ones, it doesn't get much better than the amazingly unhealthy relationship between Caim and Furiae in the game Drakengard.
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