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Joe Mello
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 11:12 am |
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Is it possible that Mai has some sort of "gifted kid" situation going on? That her natural skills puts her on a tier so beyond her friend group such that neither can relate to the other? Or is it the other part of giftedness where any admission of vulnerability or weakness is confirmation that you're an "impostor" and everything you care about goes away?
Or could it be that they're kids and they're dumb? IDK at least there's stuff to chew on.
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BeanBeanKingdom
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 11:54 am |
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Reviewer trying their hardest to see more in Mai when she really is just a female version of those overly aggressive shoujo love interests.
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TarsTarkas
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 1:12 pm |
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| Quote: | | I also might be alone in this, but you should be able to confide in your friends just as much as you should be able to confide in your romantic partners. |
Depends. Everyone is different. But it is a dangerous road for your romantic relationship if you are leaning on your friends, instead of your significant other. Specially if it gets out that you are doing so. Confidences and secrets are a form of intimacy when shared.
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Rogueywon
Joined: 01 May 2011
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 1:28 pm |
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| BeanBeanKingdom wrote: | | Reviewer trying their hardest to see more in Mai when she really is just a female version of those overly aggressive shoujo love interests. |
Having read the first three light novels, I think it's possible to over-analyse this show.
It's a big, dumb harem rom-com in the late '90s and '00s tradition. Yes, they've flipped the gender of the protagonist, but Renako's just a gender-flipped version of those old milquetoast male harem protagonists. If the first episode seems a little more introspective, that's probably because this is a light novel adaptation, while most of those old harem shows were based on manga. But this is not a show aiming for deep psychological analysis - it's a piece of lighthearted yuri fluff, where the plot gets slightly more serious (comparatively speaking) for a short while towards the end of each light novel volume.
All of which is absolutely fine with me, but if you go into it expecting more, you will likely be disappointed.
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Florete
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 1:50 pm |
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I don't think I'm seeing Mai the same way the review is. To me, Mai is being shown as a spoiled rich girl who has never been told "no" in her life. To some degree I think Renako is romantically attracted to her, even if she says she just wants friendship, but Mai still very clearly is pushing too far too fast and rarely, if ever, considers how Renako feels about anything, and this brews until the end of episode 3 where she finally sees consequences for her actions.
And I love messy yuri so I'm all here for this.
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BeanBeanKingdom
Joined: 28 Dec 2024
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 1:53 pm |
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| Rogueywon wrote: | | Having read the first three light novels, I think it's possible to over-analyse this show.
It's a big, dumb harem rom-com in the late '90s and '00s tradition. Yes, they've flipped the gender of the protagonist, but Renako's just a gender-flipped version of those old milquetoast male harem protagonists. If the first episode seems a little more introspective, that's probably because this is a light novel adaptation, while most of those old harem shows were based on manga. But this is not a show aiming for deep psychological analysis - it's a piece of lighthearted yuri fluff, where the plot gets slightly more serious (comparatively speaking) for a short while towards the end of each light novel volume.
All of which is absolutely fine with me, but if you go into it expecting more, you will likely be disappointed. |
I'd give Renako more credit because she definitely has a personality and in fact her internal monologue in the novels in particular really showcases how odd and off-beat her thought processes can be, plus she often makes the plot happen herself rather than just being a reactive plank of wood to the heroines' stories. I agree with the rest though.
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One-Eye
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 4:35 pm |
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I read the first 3-4 volumes of the manga a few years ago and I really liked it. Mostly because Renako in spite of her introversion and social anxiety consistently stands up for herself and tries to improve. She's confused about her emotions and just trying to be friends with someone is maybe all she can handle at this point. I think that makes her relatable and genuine. Mai is the extrovert that doesn't quite get where Rena is coming from, is used to winning/getting what she wants and yes as someone else mentioned kind of acts like an aggressive shojo love interest/boyfriend.
| Review wrote: | | The problem is, I don't think the show does a good enough job of letting me see things from her perspective, at least this early on in the series...I like romances that progressively show the growth between both main characters and how they coincide with romantic developments. | I think part of the issue is that you are seeing Mai as a co-protagonist. I'm not sure that she is though she has gotten quite a bit of attention in these first episodes.
| Review wrote: | | Mai has friends she can connect with, but I never understand why she felt like she couldn't open up or confide in those friends. I also might be alone in this, but you should be able to confide in your friends just as much as you should be able to confide in your romantic partners. | Uhh...what? Not all friendships are the same or have the same depth. What I share with my best friend is not necessarily what I would share with other friends. And you have to take people as they are, some people are not equipped to handle or understand certain things. This may surprise you but there are some people that only just want to hang out and have fun with you and that's their definition of friendship. The majority of Mai's "friends" may be people that only want to bask in the glow of her celebrity and are not satisfying her need for connection that Rena gives her.
| Quote: | | She is so obsessed with being in this euphorically comfortable place of a romantic relationship that she is not listening or respecting boundaries. | I totally agree with this and she even admits in the anime that she's been emotionally out of control when it comes to Rena. She's even experiencing jealousy for the first time.
Don't get me wrong I'm not defending Mai, I recall finding this part in the manga more off-putting and Rena's slap seemed harder? I expect that some viewers may drop the show after the last episode.
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omnistry
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 9:22 pm |
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Definitely one of the prettiest anime of the season, and I do think a good chunk of the humor works. But I do hope they tone down Mai a bit and allow Renako to get more comfortable with her.
Also, I hope I’m not the only one who sees the title, and finishes the “Unless…” part with “You Bring Me…Hundreds of Beavers!”
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jr240483
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 9:28 pm |
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| BeanBeanKingdom wrote: | | Reviewer trying their hardest to see more in Mai when she really is just a female version of those overly aggressive shoujo love interests. |
indeed. in terms of aggressiveness, she's like ainspha from tenten kakumei at best, at worst, she's an even worse version of the MC from im in love with the villainess!
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akitainu
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 4:28 am |
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Having read the first six LNs, I'm pretty pleased with the adaptation. Mai seems to be just as divisive as I'd have imagined. I'm watching it with some one cold to the series, and she's, uh...less than enamored of Mai. I will say though, Mai does, in my opinion, at least, do something that a lot of characters don't...she learns, changes and grows as the story progresses.
Anyways, at its core Watanare is a goofy, romcom. But I think it does flesh out the characters nicely as it advances. I hope the anime captures that, given its episode count constraints (assuming it's 12-13). I fear that some of my favorite moments won't be animated. Well, what can you do?
Now I just need Vol 7 of the LN to get released here, because Vol 6 left me hanging.
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Clarste
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 5:09 am |
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I think part of the problem here is the assumption that you are supposed to be rooting for Mai. She is not a protagonist, she is the antagonist. Not to say that she is an irredeemable villain or anything, but her purpose in the story (at least so far) is to prevent Renako from getting what she wants. She is an obstacle to be overcome.
She makes Renako very uncomfortable with unwelcome advances and you're supposed to feel uncomfortable with that.
| One-Eye wrote: | | Don't get me wrong I'm not defending Mai, I recall finding this part in the manga more off-putting and Rena's slap seemed harder? I expect that some viewers may drop the show after the last episode. |
That's also true, the manga framed this scene much more dramatically, with a much sharper slap and Renako with tears in her eyes. This was a big deal.
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PorkBazaar
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 7:40 am |
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It's so distressing that when we finally get an actual yuri anime people pick it apart and criticize it to death for being problematic. I wonder if this is why some fans gravitate towards fluff that falls more into the headcanon territory where they don't have to deal with messy things like physical intimacy or fanservice and can just imagine the yuri in their mind to conform to their own content levels. This is what most yuri fans enjoy. Messy, physical, sexy fun. Watanare delivers all that in spades and Mai's antics are a treat to watch.
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LinkTSwordmaster
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 8:51 am |
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| PorkBazaar wrote: | | It's so distressing that when we finally get an actual yuri anime people pick it apart and criticize it to death for being problematic. I wonder if this is why some fans gravitate towards fluff that falls more into the headcanon territory where they don't have to deal with messy things like physical intimacy or fanservice and can just imagine the yuri in their mind to conform to their own content levels. |
I think it would be willfully-ignorant on my part, not to point out that if Mai was a guy character and that third episode ended the way it did, the show would quite possibly be getting flamed. I've sat through the whole of all episodes of Mushoku Tensei that have aired currently, and there's definitely some uncomfortable (under-age) interactions on that show - it's prevalent enough there, that it kind of makes it hard to casually recommended watching it - thankfully Lover! Unless... isn't really giving that sort of vibe.
Additionally, I've been forced to sit through numerous "Oh, this show has a Yuri couple!" anime series in the past, and it's quite often that those shows get kind of toxic by the end and try to backtrack how serious the two girl characters are - Lover! Unless... also doesn't seem to be bothering me in that same way either. Overall, I think they're doing a pretty fair job of things, given the genre of the show.
It seemed to me at the end of the last episode that Rena is potentially interested in being physical like that with someone else, but potentially with Sena (Ajisai-san) rather than Mai, and certainly not with other family nearby. Readers likely know what's happening next, but I'm going in blind, so I'm reserving judgement of each individual characters' portrayal until I've finished the whole thing.
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Animegomaniac
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 7:20 pm |
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Episode 3 helped redeem the series for me with Renako slapping Mai but it does nothing for the girl herself. Sena on the other hand looks to be offering the opposite problem as Renako seems to be more interested in her as a girlfriend while Sena just wants to be a friend.
But what is really curious is that Renako always saw Sena this way, rejecting herself from even being her friend because of self esteem issues. Perhaps being pursued by the glamorous model will help Renako beef up both her friend game and her "friend" game.
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jr240483
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 10:21 pm |
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| PorkBazaar wrote: | | It's so distressing that when we finally get an actual yuri anime people pick it apart and criticize it to death for being problematic. I wonder if this is why some fans gravitate towards fluff that falls more into the headcanon territory where they don't have to deal with messy things like physical intimacy or fanservice and can just imagine the yuri in their mind to conform to their own content levels. This is what most yuri fans enjoy. Messy, physical, sexy fun. Watanare delivers all that in spades and Mai's antics are a treat to watch. |
i also saw this during review eps of wataoshi (im in love with the villainess), watayuri (yuri is my job), tenten kakumei (the magical revolution of the reincarnated princess & the genius young lady), whisper me a love song & especially gundam witch of mercury!
ite even worse on forums like MAL and even in some japanese websites!.
its probably because of overly critical people like them that are the primary reason why there is a double standard within the yuri genre, and is why every single yuri anime adaptaion ALWAYS get the "source material promotion" type of treatment!
and i will not be surprised AT ALL if just like with the rest of the yuri anime i mentioned above that this series get the "READ THE BOOKS, KIDS" scenario aka a source matetial promotional series!
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